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Volonte was Haitian, and his family did not have it easy (1). His father died when he was 8, and two days before that he had lost a brother. His mom's business went bankrupt because of medical bills, and the smaller house she built was destroyed in the earthquake. Her church helps the family out right now.


Volonte, by the way, had bone cancer. Before the devasting earthquake, he had been suffering from a painful, swollen leg. A doctor (medical missionary) helping out in Haiti after the quake met him and took a biopsy to have it looked at in the US. Getting the biopsy was no easy thing because of the massive level of devastation, so to preserve it while it made its way to the States, they preserved it in Vodka. A diagnosis of bone cancer was proclaimed, and the doctor offered to pay for Volonte's travel expenses and treatment if he could get him to the States. After a complicated ordeal, it happened.

A pastor was contacted, who in turn contacted an amazing family who offered to take Volonte into their family and provide a home for him.

This is where I come in. I met Volonte at the Double H Ranch in Lake Luzerne, NY this summer. HH is one of Paul Newman's Hole In The Wall camps for chronically and terminally ill children. He was in my Beaver Cabin, which is the oldest boy cabin on camp.

His amazing presence was immediately felt by all who came near him. He was funny, thoughtful, caring, compassionate, edifying, and most of all "a beautiful man".

I spent much time with Volonte over the next 5 days, possibly more than anyone else at the Ranch. I seen his fight with pain, as he tried to hide it when we were getting ready in the morning. We all bore witness to a self-sacrificing servant as he spoke of his desire to help people that were sick, and edify people who were downcast. His insight was admirable, especially when he asked Chocolate if he was a Christian. Chocolate replied that he was, and that he had a tattoo of a cross on the back of his shoulder. Volonte replied that just because you have a tattoo it does not make you a Christian. Chocolate agreed; but I think Chocolate convinced him of his sincerity throughout the week.

There is so much I could write about Volonte, and maybe I should, but I don't think I will. He was a 16 year old man, who was robbed of life. He spent what should have been a few of the greatest years of his life in dire discomfort, never asking us "Why?", but enduring it as a brave soldier.

Jenny & I (& Don Kephart) went and visited Volonte at his home after camp, and got to meet his family, and eat pizza with him, and play video games with him, and read the Bible with him. He loved Jesus, and exemplified his Savior's life.

The earth seems more dim without Volonte. I think about him not being able to come to Alumni next summer and my spirit weighs heavy. We had so much more to learn from him; and he had so much more life to live. But he will not be back. Volonte died a couple of days ago, and the world lost another one of those whom it was not worthy of. I consider it a gift of God to simply have known this amazing boy. He sang songs of Jesus at any given moment, anticipating the face-to-Face meeting that is inevitable for us all.

I'll stop now, because it is too easy to go on and on and on and on and on...........

I love you Volonte. Say 'Hello' to Jesus for me, and Francis of Assisi too.

 


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Lynn Murphy
26/10/2011 10:31pm

Josh,

Such a touching note to a precious young man that left this earth too soon.

Lynn

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Chocolate
26/10/2011 10:32pm

Amazing my friend...Amazing.

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Nurse Deb
26/10/2011 11:11pm

Sometimes you meet someone who reminds you that however distracted we get, the love of God and those He sends into our lives is simple and beautiful, it isn't complicated. It comes in a brilliant smile that comes through the pain and Volonte always had a word of praise on his tongue. His faith never wavered. You made a difference Josh. You relationship with Volonte gives such credence to your own testimony. One that you might have missed. Anyone who met Volonte knew they had somehow seen a glimpse of the truth. If you never did anything else, it is sad but you and I know, Volonte came from God as evidence of something so much greater than ourselves. This is life and maybe he wasn't cut short, maybe we overestimate this life and underestimate eternity in heaven. Volonte had an aura of something devine. Volonte is a part of your testimony.

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Sarah
26/10/2011 11:49pm

Josh, your beautiful thoughts and words are directly made from God himself. We could tell the day that he stepped onto HH grounds that he was a soldier for the Lord.. what a joy that you were able to spend so much time with him. Thank you for sharing!

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Nancy
27/10/2011 12:01am

Thank you so much for sharing this, Josh. So touching.. It's comforting to know that Volonte is now resting in His arms, pain free!

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Julie
27/10/2011 12:04am

Josh,you are such a good hearted young man. The world needs more peoplen who care and would help out those who can not help themselves. Thanks you so much for sharing!

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Beth
27/10/2011 9:06am

Incredible tribute.....I did not know Volonte but I have had the privilege to be part of the Double H family the last two summers and the joy that he must have felt that week will stay with him eternally......

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Ashley A
27/10/2011 10:07am

Volonte was lucky to encounter you during his time on this earth, and you him. it sounds like you really made a deep connection that you will carry with you. Volonte's story has an important and lasting message because he knew his life might be short but found peace in spite of that and never lost hope. Josh, I am confident you know that the Double H family is one of the many supports in your life that you can go to when you want to share your feelings about Volonte. Thank you for sharing this wonderful commemoration.

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Mav
27/10/2011 12:41pm

Thanks for sharing this Josh, it was truly touching.

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Alex "Paddle"
27/10/2011 2:14pm

I'm truly sorry for anyone who was affected by the loss of Volante. The most magical thing about him and many others in the Double H Family is that all of you are so genuine and loving. It is wonderful reading your stories, and I only wish I had a chance to meet this amazing man who touched so many of your lives. Blessings follow his family and the amazing people who continue to make magic happen at HH.

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Morgan
27/10/2011 7:31pm

hey Josh and if jenny sees this, if shown this article to friends while ive been in a slump lately. I love you and miss you both very much. HH <3 Hope to see you both soon :)

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Julie Karanfilis
27/10/2011 11:07pm

Incredible Josh. I didn't know the soldier, but your online post made it so clear that sitting here in my office... i have tears streaming down my face. He was a beautiful man. He is a beautiful man. He now resides with the most lovely Man that ever walked on this earth. i know he will give Jesus a hug for you... and when you need one... I have every confidence He will be right there too. So much love to you and Jenny. hope to see you both soon again. xoxo Jules

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Jessica
28/10/2011 10:35am

Josh, what an incredible story. I saw your link through Julie K's post. I worked at HH for a number of years and understand your sentiments exactly. I am so happy that you were able to connect with this amazing young man. In looking at your pictures it is obvious that V was a man of strong faith and trust in Jesus. He is so peaceful despite the suffering he must have been enduring. He was truly living Jesus' will - may he be an example for all of us:-) HH to you always!

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Nurse pat
28/10/2011 11:45am

Seeing Volante for the first time you could see something so special in his eyes.....ahah-it was his spirit so pure and strong. It was a blessing to watch him at HH and I am so proud to be a part of the HH family that embraced him and gave so much to him. TRUTH is - he gave much more to us. Now he is singing AND dancing.

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Mary Beth Barrett
28/10/2011 4:42pm

While I was painting the school behind Matthew 25, I would pass Volonte and he would always give me a Beautiful smile. We shared a moment of laughter when he saw all the paint on my face. You could see through his eyes that there was pain but his strength showed through his smile, He was here to show us strength and we must all learn from him. I am sure God is taking very good care of him now.

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